Female Orgasm System | Clitoris | Bulb and Root

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Hello. Thank you, guys, for showing up again today. We took a couple of weeks off from our review of the female orgasm system. And now, we are ready to roll again.

Even Medical School Does Not Teach all of the Anatomy of the Female, and that Matters

When I was a kid, I remember wondering, "What the heck does the vagina look like?"

And then, as I got older and had girlfriends and then went to medical school and learned what the vagina is like, I was somewhat disappointed to realize that often it is thought about as if it were just a simple birth canal and a urinary tract and the elegance of the parts were not really discussed.

It turns out, my disappointment was not misplaced. An article that came out this year in the Journal of Sexual Medicine made a big point of the fact that not knowing about the female genital anatomy is not insignificant (Peters, 2023); if we don't think about the parts—all of the parts—then we do not know best how to treat dysfunction.

Another article demonstrated that, of seven medical schools in the Chicago area, only one was teaching all of the components of the clitoris (Codispoti, 2023). And the irony is that, in that article, they did not even test for all the parts. They left one of the components of the anatomy, the clitoral root, out of their evaluation of the curriculum.1

What is the “Female Orgasm System”?

There are two components of the female orgasm system that I think are most nebulous. Not only are they unseen, they are less discussed and more vaguely conceptualized by most physicians. Before we think about them, take 30 seconds to review what we were doing with this series of lessons: a systems analysis of the female orgasm.

Systems analysis first involves, "What's the purpose of all the parts working together?"

There is overlap; some parts work in both the respiratory and cardiovascular systems. Some parts of the urinary system are in the reproductive system or in the orgasm system. But, when you have a discreet set of parts that perform a specific function (in this case, sexual arousal in females, not reproduction, but sexual arousal, sometimes leading to orgasm)—then that is a separate system.

You can become more and more detailed by dividing each component, each subcomponent, and each sub-sub-component going on for infinity into the sub-particle level and eventually into ethics, philosophy, and mathematics (since everything is related to everything). But, clinically and practically, first-order components are most important to help women to better health and marriages.

You cannot really think about how all the parts work together if you do not even think about “What are all the parts?

Two Nebulous Parts of the Female Orgasm System

An article showed that (looking at medical schools) not all the parts are even being taught. I made a sketch (see the video) from a detailed article showing the suspensory ligament, prepuce (the hood), body, and glans. In the sketch, you will also see the root and the bulb; these two components of the female orgasm system seem nebulous to most people.

The Bulb of the Clitoris

At one time, the bulb was considered part of the labia, but it is contiguous with the body of the clitoris. And so, most people consider it, now, to be equivalent to the corpus spongiosum of a male and as just as much a part of the clitoris as the corpus spongiosum is to the penis.

More about the bulbs later.

The Root of the Clitoris

But the root is even more nebulous. Let me show you something that I did this morning. I think this will shock you: I went to the AI app that everybody's using now. When you search for the “root of the clitoris” in the new AI application, it says, "The clitoris is a complex organ, highly sensitive organ, female genitalia. It doesn't have a root like a plant does. Instead, it has a visible and internal components,"

I will show you how the root relates to the G-spot, the urethra, and sexual function. Before I do, consider the root from the lover’s perspective (including the woman who loves herself (I am only partly referring to masturbation).

Why the Root Matters in the Lover’s Mind

I have a friend, Anne Kent Rush, who co-authored and illustrated the first massage book published in the United States that was written for people other than physical therapists (Downing, 1972). I first read it when I was about 17, and I’m 63 right now.

Back in the '50s, massage therapists were thought to be people who gave you a happy ending, and their places of business were in the red-light districts. But, Ms. Rush, with her writing did much to change that.

In her book (co-authored with Downing), she gave what I think to be great advice for lovers or massage therapists. She said, "Let your hands talk to the other person about their own body."

So, if you are touching someone's back and you're just rubbing it absent-minded like their back is a piece of meat, that's one thing. But if you can actually see (in your mind’s eye) and say to the person, “Here are your splenius capitis; here are your paraspinal muscles; here is your trapezius; and here are the insertion sites, and here is the full length and beauty of this muscle,” and your hands are gently teaching the person, showing the person, the individual muscles and how miraculous their body-temple is constructed, then they are going to enjoy a beautiful massage.

How much more so if you do the same with the genitalia?

So, translate that idea over to lovemaking and imagine making love to your lover’s genitalia with full knowledge of all the seen and the unseen.

Now imagine the opposite: I have seen very bright physicians come to my workshops, and when we do the hands-on practice of how to do the O-Shot® procedure, and their wife is the model, I am often shocked to see the spouse fumble with the identification of the anatomy while doing a procedure on his own wife. And, I guess I shouldn't be shocked since we just discussed that female genital anatomy is not taught in medical school; so where was he to learn it? From the football coach who taught him sex education in high school?

If you are going to be the doctor to people with vaginas or you are going to be the lover of people with vaginas, even whether the vagina is yours or another person's, it might be helpful to know all the parts so you can love on them or treat them, whatever the case may be.

I acknowledge that, in the heat of passion with the woman you love, no one thinks about the intricacies of the clitoral anatomy. In the heat of passion, it is just sweat and sounds, and no one is speaking like the Oxford English Dictionary or thinking about the intricate connections of the prepuce or the suspensory ligament; that’s not happening.

But, on the other side of that, knowing every part could make you a better lover and it could certainly make you a better physician. Maybe I am overemphasizing the point, but I don't want you to think that I think it is necessary to know every part, to have good love-making, I think it can take things to another level if combined with the rest of your passion and intellect.

I sketched my version of it, a simplified version of the root (see the video). Part of the confusion for the confusion regarding the root is that the multiple planes of the crus and the bulbs make it difficult to illustrate. But, if you look at this dorsal view, you can see the glans, the body, and the clitoris. It comes down to this area, from which the corpus splits away. And it's been dissected, where you can see it on the patient's left, but not on the right (refer to the video).

And then, if you look at the transverse view, you can see one of the corpus cavernosi, coming towards you, and you can see the suspensory ligament. And, as you know, there's another corpus cavernosi going away from you.

So, let me draw it, in just about as simple as I could draw it, which would be like this. Here's glans, and here's corpus cavernosi. But what do you call that? That is not the glans, it's not the body, it's not the corpus cavernosi, it's the root.

In spite of what your artificial intelligence app says. The clitoris does have a root. It is talked about in the research; it is important; and you should know what it is and where it is.

Do we want to just go back to thinking of the introitus, labia, and clitoris as just a glob of tissue, or do we actually want to understand it?

Of course, you do because you're on this call!

Here’s a crucial point from one of my favorite papers regarding female anatomy (Pauls, 2015), discussing the clitoral root,

"It's positioned beneath the skin of the vestibule and forms the connection from the clitoral body to the crura, overlapping with the two bulbs of the vestibule. The root is considered of importance because of the sensation. The convergence of the clitoral erectile bodies may be the most responsive to direct stimulation, owing to its superficial location and its depth of erectile tissue."

Okay? Read that again and tell me the root is not important. I dare you.

Dr. G, the G-Spot, and the Clitoral Root

Now, think about where the root is:

The urethral orifice lies at the most posterior portion of the clitoral root. So, if you go back to this picture, the clitoris is angling down (caudal). And the urethral orifice is near the root.

Now, think about what the G-spot is:

Dr. Grafenberg's big idea was not really regarding a spot. His noticing was that pressure on the urethra, not a spot, the urethra, was the most stimulatory thing possible to a woman’s body. Pressure there resulted in the most amazing orgasms. And he documented or described female ejaculation from stimulating the urethra with pressure on the anterior vaginal wall (Grafenberg, 1950).

Pressure from the anterior vaginal wall against the urethra, the root is right there. The root is very responsive to stimulation (Oakley, 2013). It could be that part of what's happening when you stimulate the so-called G-spot2: pressure there is definitely going also to stimulate the clitoral root.

So, when Dr. Grafenberg described stimulation of the urethra, he was also stimulating the clitoral root.

Corollaries of Acknowledgment of the Clitoral Root

Considering the clitoral root, "What can go wrong?"

Vaginal delivery can tear the area. One of our gynecologists told me that when she delivers the babies of women who suffer genital mutilation, the whole clitoral body can be torn, including the root. It sometimes must be sutured back together postpartum.

Perhaps knowing about the root, should you wish for self-pleasure or pleasuring your lover, knowing that it's not just the vagina and the urethra that matters, but there's a root to the clitoris, from which the corpora and the body originate, like a root, branches coming off of a root. Then, that understanding could make things better.

When Bruce Lee discussed martial arts in his book on fighting (Lee, 2018), he said that after you study the book and learn it, you tear it up and throw it away. When fighting, the individual methods and specific learning go out the window the first time someone hits you in the nose. But, in the art and in instinct that guides the fists will be embedded, the learning from the book discarded. And so it is with lovemaking. You learn the anatomy and then forget the anatomy in the bedroom; still, things could be better with your eyes closed because of what you learned when they were open.

The sensitivity of the clitoral root also explains why size might matter—not big or little or loose or tight, but the best fit between one man and one woman will put pressure on the root—but not too much.

Moreover, assuming that there's something other than penis and vagina sex, knowing and understanding the clitoral root can make a difference to what one might be doing with hands and tongue; back to my analogy, with massage. If you know what's there, and you talk to your lover with your hands and tongue about what you are discovering, that can be much different than if you are only manipulating a big “glob of stuff” you don’t understand.

Disclaimer

Just to avoid as many arrows as possible, with every lesson, I like to remind you that I understand there is much more to a woman than her vagina—that’s the whole point of what we are doing: there is a system, there's the psychology, the sociology, the hormonal milieu, the circulation, so many other things, but why not understand all the parts? And back to the irony, this part (the root) was not included in the test of the medical school curriculum—the testers omitted one of the parts of the system about which they were testing.

To summarize the root:

The root is the intersection of the two corpus cavernosum, the body of the clitoris and the bulbs of the clitoris. It lies above the urethra. It's very responsive to stimulation. And we should know what it is and where it is.

More about the Bulbs

Now, back to the bulbs.

The bulbs are, let's go back to this picture (see the video); the bulbs are up to seven centimeters long. The bulb, look at it, it lies just along the edge of the labia minora and is contiguous with the body and the glans clitoris, and fills that space with tissue that is also both erectile and trabecular.

A lesson from the penis

Reconsider men for a moment. By the time a man reaches 65, he loses about 50% of the endothelium. With women, Delancey and others have documented that the nerves and muscles of the clitoris and urethra atrophy; in his cadaver studies (see multiple references listed below).

Further, we know that platelet-rich plasma causes neurogenesis and angiogenesis (see references). When we do our O-Shot® procedure, we're injecting the body of the clitoris, which is connected to the root, the crura, and the corpus spongiosum, or the bulb. As expected, after this injection, a woman’s sex can improve dramatically. (See representative references regarding the O-Shot® procedure here<—).

This cutaway view (see video), I think, is also very illuminating. I love this paper. And because you can see they're holding the body of the clitoris. They've cut away just along the edge of the labia minora. And you can see the bulb or the corpus spongiosum, right there, lying underneath the mound of the labia majora. Now, the tissue of the labia majora, so it's lying above.

Let's go back and look at this picture. Here is the introitus. So, it stops beneath the urethra, near Bartholin's gland, at the upper part of the introitus.

So, looking back here, it would go down, beneath the urethra, and it would come over, lying beneath the mound of the labia majora. And, remember, it's erectile and has sensation.

Now, when we do our O-Shot, we are injecting the body of the clitoris. When we do the Vampire Wing Lift® procedure, we inject PRP into the anterior half of the labia majora. And I don't propose that we are always accurately inserting that needle in the center of the corpus spongiosum. But there's enough volume there that there would definitely be a field effect that improves the function of the bulbs.

When you treat the hair, you don't have to cover every millimeter. If you're within a centimeter of an area, you are going to affect hair growth. And, oftentimes, you'll even see improvement in the skin of the forehead because there's a field effect. Platelet-rich plasma recruits pluripotent stem cells that migrate to the area and propagate regeneration of healthy tissue, collagen, nerve, and blood flow. And it's not just where the lumen of your needle happens to be exactly within a millimeter of the area intended.

So, I think I'm okay with being more lucky than smart. My original idea of doing the Vampire Wing Lift® procedure was injecting and restoring volume and rubor, like we do with the Vampire Facelift® procedure. I didn't really contemplate the idea that, in all likelihood, we're also improving the sensation and function and restoring some of the volume of the bulb or the corpus spongiosum.

So, the bulb lies in a triangular space of three to seven centimeters. It probably provides some structure that improves sensation with sexual intercourse.

"The bulb or homologous corpus spongiosum, they engorge during arousal, some lubrication function, but also conferring stability on the vaginal walls."

So by this explanation, the bulbs bring the clitoral tissue closer to the vaginal lumen during arousal.

Remember, we looked at a cross-section of the penis within the vagina, and we contemplated the following: “Without structure, there is no pressure."

The penis, without the structure supporting the vaginal walls, would have no pressure against the urethra, the root, the corpus cavernosi, the corpus spongiosum, or the bulb.

Conclusion

The more I read, the more I realize the vastness of what I don't know—even after reading all that I can read. There is much to know and even more to discover.

One year ago, I couldn't have given you a good explanation of what the root of the clitoris is. And now that I know, I have more questions than answers.

I say this to restate that what we're doing here is worth doing. Pointing out, if medical schools don't even teach all the parts of the clitoris, then, I think this project we're doing, defining the Female Orgasm System (it’s parts and how they work together) is worth doing.

I’m so very grateful that you're showing up for these webinars because it motivates me not to stop; it means that maybe at least somebody's interested. And there appears to be quite a few of you guys that are interested. Hope you'll spread the word. I'm not charging for any of this. I'm just putting it out, editing it some, before I put it out, with the mission that people realize that it's not just a glob of stuff down there.

And just knowing the parts doesn't fix anything.

I spoke with a very prominent gynecologist/pelvic reconstructive surgeon, and he proceeded to explain to me all the parts. And I was thinking, "Yep. Know it. Know it. Know it." But, knowing all the parts would be like lifting the hood of your car, but that doesn't mean you know how they're functioning together, as a system, to make your car go down the road."

So, we have, first, I think, to label all the components.

Then, there's this idea: “How are they working together?"

We haven't even gotten to the other parts, like the pelvic floor muscles. "How do they work together to help both with continence and improvement in sexual function?"

And, "How do they work together, with the clitoris and all the rest of the system, to create pleasure?"

But I think that's all I have today. Hopefully, that's helpful. And, hopefully, next time somebody asks you about the parts of the clitoris, you'll know exactly about the root and the bulb.

Have a great day. Goodbye.

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  11. The clitoral root is thought by some anatomist to be very important to sexual arousal (Pauls,2015); but it is often not mentioned in anatomical descriptions of the vagina. The current author, asked his favorite AI app about the clitoral root, and the AI denied the existence of any such anatomical part. ↩︎
  12. which I always choke on that, because I think it's not really a specific unmovable spot. I think it's just that part of that area, that happens to be most sensitive, at that particular moment, for that woman on that day. It may be different five minutes from now. ↩︎

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Female Orgasm System

Hello,

A system is a group of components that work together to accomplish a purpose.  The Reproductive System produces offspring and propagates the race. The respiratory system removes carbon dioxide and provides oxygen to the cells. The Orgasm System provides pleasure to create deeper relationships and families and recurring sex (promoting the implementation of the Reproductive System).

Systems can share components and not be identical; there can be overlap.  The entire body could be thought of as a system with subsystems like the nervous, gastrointestinal, and endocrine systems.  The endocrine system makes up part of the Orgasm System.

One might argue that the Orgasm System is the most complex since it does not work well if any other system malfunctions.

I first introduced the term "Female Orgasm System" to the medical literature more than a decade ago to promote a methodical, systems-analysis approach to diagnosing and treating sexual problems, exactly as is done with all other systems in the body.

Problems with the Orgasm System

With any system, problems with any major component or disruption of any of the feedback loops will affect the whole system. The lines in the following diagram represent feedback loops.

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What's the Real Problem with Most Love Relationships, and How Do You Fix It?

What if when you made love to a woman, you left her completely limp, exhausted, covered in tears of happiness, wet with her own ejaculate, and basking in the afterglow of a pleasure so amazing that she collapsed in happy bliss and in obedience to your wisdom and skill in helping her to pleasure and safety?

Yep--That's a mouth full; but it's possible.

When you look at all the courses on lovemaking, all the supplements and courses to improve connection, and sex, and appearance and even the size of the penis, when you study all the info on the best way to dress (even why people read the scriptures)--for what do most people search in the way of sex and love?

After talking with over 3,000 women about the intimate details of their health and their lives, after writing the best-selling sex manual that brought to me male patients and letters from readers around the world, after way too many lovers (on a personal basis), after studying the latest in sexual research and even doing my own research in the areas of sex and physiology---this is what I consider the problem that persists that most cannot even articulate: no matter how controlling on angry she may seem, most women want to rest in the love of a man who is on an adventure, she wants to be the beauty that motivates and inspires, and (now here's the politically incorrect part that may make you gasp)--she wants to feel so secure and loved and trusting that she relaxes and becomes--OBEDIENT.

I know there will be many angry people, just because I wrote the "O" word. But, ironically, the angriest, the most denying, are the most unhappy because they have not found a safe place to rest in the "O" word (and I don't mean "orgasm").

She wants to be obedient, but you must be worthy and able to accept her. Most women are unconsciously testing men to see if the man is strong enough to rule her (in a loving way) and become disrespectful and angry when the men come up short.

Scary word. "obedience", and most women would rather you ask them for anything other than obedience. But, in the right situation, they will gladly give it to the man: the right situation is--"Total Surrender Orgasm with Female Ejaculation."

Just for me to write the "O" word took much courage on my part because I know how much it's misunderstood and can even provoke more anger than most four-letter words.

But, wait, please let me explain the real secret of the "O" word...

What if she knew the man loved her enough to die for her with a completely unselfish love? What if she knew that he loved her so much he would never want anything for her except the very best, even if it brought him pain.

What if she trusted his judgment (because of his love); thought him strong and wise and connected to a higher power; what if she thought his soul connected to hers so that she knew that when she cut her finger that he would bleed--that when she had an orgasm, that he would feel ecstasy?

What if he really knew her body better than anyone--including herself?

Do you think that then, perhaps, she would know that whatever he asked would at least be the best for her, then, knowing that, could actually become eager to know what he wanted of her, and start living the "O" word even if her ladies magazines have taught her to deplore it?

If she knew that she would blossom with beauty and with happiness and with pleasure if obedient to him, would she want to be obedient?

It's pretty straight from most scriptures: The man loves the woman enough to die for her. The woman obeys the man with devoted surrender.

He gets respect. She gets love.

Sounds pretty cool, but how to pull that off?

More importantly, how do you relate to a woman emotionally and physically to find this very sweet surrender (and I mean sweet for her even more than for him).

Just being a "good lover" will not do it; she could have many "good" lovers who are mechanically adequate in bed, but she's looking for "something more."

Just listening will not do it; her friends listen.

Just being strong or rich or having large biceps or a large penis or a handsome face--none of these will do it.

She may think that when she meets the man with any combination of the above that she has found the man to whom she can surrender--but after a time, she realizes that none of these are enough and she will start to pull away, grow dissatisfied, and look elsewhere or settle into a tasteless routine.

An Experiment to Prove the True Nature of Men and Women

Show me a woman who is totally surrendered to a man who does not love her completely and I will show you a woman being abused by a man (physically, emotionally, or both).

Show me a woman who is not surrendered (and obedient) to a man who completely and unselfishly loves her, and I will show you a man who is broken physically and financially by the emotional (and yes sometimes physical) abuse of the woman he loves.

Here's the Experiment...

Stop now: Prove the truth of these words by thinking of couples who fit both categories.

  1. The surrender of the woman without the unselfish love of the man leads to the abuse of the woman.
  2. Unselfish love of the man without surrender of the woman leads to abuse of the man.

Could you think of examples of both cases? Women find it easier to think of cases of the first situation. Men find it easier to think of cases of the second example.

It takes both to have the perfect match. A wise, strong, loving man. A wise, strong, and surrendered woman.

Show me a woman who is totally surrendered to a completely loving man and I will show you a loving, excited, happy couple.

For this to work, the man's love must be greater than the woman's to earn the surrender of the woman. That is the way of the ancients and it's what's missing from the modern that results in the turbulence and the breakups of most marriages.

When the man puts on the suit, or lifts weights, or studies martial arts, or reads a book--he wants the surrender of a woman--but none of these will work.

When the woman puts on the dress, or gets the manicure, she wants the love of the man--but none of these will work.

Why the Problem Continues...

So, if this is the highest way between man and woman, and it's been spoken for at least 2,000 years, then why does the problem continue?

Here are several reasons:

  • Sometimes the man is fearful of the woman, when what the woman really wants is for the man to be man enough to stand up to her--to not be afraid. If he can't stand up to her, how can he be strong enough to stand up for her?
  • Sometimes the man loves the woman dearly but simply does not know how to communicate to the woman that he loves her enough for her to find rest with him (If he thinks his words or his money will do it, then he's in for some pain).
  • Sometimes the woman is so fearful of giving up control to a man (who might then abuse or neglect her) that she cannot find the courage to surrender (and he does not know how to help her find that courage).
  • Sometimes the man truly does not love the woman enough, nor is he strong enough, or wise enough to give her a place to rest--so she cannot surrender--it would be like stepping off a cliff to fall into an abyss.
  • Sometimes everything is in place (the man is able and loving, the woman is able and wanting) except for the man understanding a way to make it happen. Here the man struggles to find a better way to talk, or buys more things, or tries to have more sex, or less sex, spending more time, spending less time--until he's exhausted and she's confused. Until, with a deep feeling that everything could be perfect but with exhaustion from not being able to set it up, finally the couple splits to try to find bliss another way.
  • Or, without knowing what or how to find the total surrender to the perfect love, both parties settle into a place of mostly peaceful cohabitation. Never going deeper and never splitting apart. Never knowing the full bliss of a male and female union but living together to avoid the pain completely being alone.
  • Plainly this level of devotion and understanding is not easy, which is exactly why it cannot be found in the quick and meaningless encounters. This situation is the reward of those truly devoted to each other and is one way to define the heavenly bliss that should define a committed love. So, this situation only comes about with at least the idea of being together in some way forever (which ironically most people fear because they do not know what is possible).

How sad that some people think the only reason for a long-term relationship is either the rearing of children or the avoidance of sexually transmitted disease or to keep from being lonely. You can accomplish all of these ends fairly well and be reasonably promiscuous with only short-term relations.

But, to accomplish what I am describing demands that you go to the core of your being as a man

and find the core of her being as a woman.

And, the reward is the definition of love and of sexual bliss.

The Problem Continues Because Most Men are Learning Bed-Room Tricks and Lifting Weights and Buying Gifts Instead of Finding the Holy Pilgrimage to a Woman's Soul

The path to this blissful place cannot be explained in a 3-page article in Cosmo Magazine or in Men's Health Magazine. You won't find it exactly laid out in the scriptures or in the sex manuals or in the gym (though there are ingredients and clues in all of those places).

To really successfully follow this path requires a working knowledge of at least the following:

  • The psychology of a woman's surrender both emotionally and sexually (almost the same).
  • The different types of female orgasm and how to help a woman to each type.
  • The physiology and endocrinology of excellent female health and sexuality.
  • The detailed anatomy of the female body, especially how it relates to the different types of orgasm.
  • The sexual techniques of a man that allow him to have unlimited sex (not worrying about premature ejaculation).
  • The special techniques that best provide a deep, earth-shattering, ejaculating orgasm for the woman (one of these I developed and have seen in no other book).
  • The spiritual laws of sexuality that allow unbridled passion without boredom.
  • The how to find the courage to love her fearlessly (and why it's your own emotions that you should most fear). Why you won't take her to bliss and obedience without this because she will know your fear and hold back.
  • How to find the connection to a higher power from which she can draw strength through her connection to you. Are you really brave enough to become the "priest" of your house that sanctifies her sexuality and then fills it with exploding passion that show's her heaven on earth?
  • How to be loving without becoming wimpy. If you cater to her every need in a wimpy way, then she has castrated you and will look at you with disdain because you allowed that castration. If you love her unselfishly but with strength, then you have discovered the art of a manly love and she will surrender to you. Men who make idols of their lover will eventually know their lover's disdain.
  • According to ancient scriptures, the man who loves his woman in the wrong way will literally have his prayers "hindered" --eventually being cut off from both wife and God.

In summary, the reason the problem continues is that these are not easy skills and they are nether widely known nor widely taught. It took me until the age of 40, a few thousand patients, too many lovers, a study of scripture and physiology, sex manuals, anatomy, psychiatry, endocrinology, and a broken marriage to even start to become aware of the existence of these skills and laws.

The understanding of these laws and techniques is as deep and as profound and not far removed from the understanding of the Creator and discovering how to love the woman in your life can be a way to discover the face of that Creator.

A Powerful Tool for Finding Complete Surrender--What Is Possible with the Level 9 Orgasm

About a year ago, I discussed the idea of female ejaculation and offered a seminar to teach some very esoteric techniques.

I have closed that seminar for now; but I am offering a course that presents many of the techniques in audio and written materials. This is not a course to read and think about. This is an action group with home work assignments.

The goal of the group is that your lover will reach a place of more loving surrender and of female ejaculation. Before you get too excited, be sure to read this.

What This Action Group Cannot Fix:

  • If your woman has the personality to roam--borderline personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, and others--then she will roam no matter what. No man will ever satisfy her because she is unable to find satisfaction. But, she will still be obedient to you when she is with you.

  • If you do not do as instructed, then you will not see results. This is an action group, not a study course. You learn to do or else learning does not change your life.

  • If your relationship is damaged, it may take being away from your lover for a time or starting over with another person. Sometimes, you can't un break a glass. But, if you start over, you will increase your chances of a real connection.

The Tools to Teach You the Skills

Week 1: Total Surrender Orgasm with Female Ejaculation Part I (One hour MP3 audio recording).

Week 2: Anytime...for as Long as You Want: Strength, Genius, Libido, & Erection by Integrative Sex Transmutation 15-day course for men to improve sex and life.

Week 3: Total Surrender Orgasm Part II (One hour MP3 audio recording) Explains

Week 4: The Law of Health: 10 Essential Steps to Glorious Health & Miraculous Healing. A 10-Week course to find your best health and your best shot at rejuvenation and healing of your body-temple.

Week 5: Dr. Runels Recipe for Erection Enhancement. How to make your penis larger and healthier. What women really think about penis size. When size matters and when it does not.

Week 6: The #1 Health & Energy Secret Without this one you will have less energy to give.

Week 7: Total Surrender Orgasm with Female Ejaculation Part III (One hour MPE audio recording). Explains

Week 8: The Magic 9 techniques for extending lovemaking for as long as you want making ejaculation like a light switch that you turn on or off at will.

Week 9: Practical Application of Integrative Sex Transmutation: Advanced techniques for transmuting sexual energy into strength, energy, intelligence, creativity, spiritual enlightenment, and into the sexual and physical connection that makes two lovers become one.

For about the price of dinner and a movie, you can learn how to elevate your sex and love-making to a place of which few know exists and even less ever see.

I've been asked by some of my group to extend this price but after one more week, the price goes WAY up (haven't decided how much yet). Most offer discounts to get new clients. I'm offering a discount because you've been reading my stuff already.

Hope to hear from you. I'll be advertising the group and going up on the price in a few days.

(credit card will not show the name of the action group) 100% guaranteed results

Peace & Health,

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Charles Runels, MD

The Sex Energy Doctor™

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