Jack Hammers, Space, & Sex

Even though by studying my course Extend Sex, you can possibly become a man who can provide sex like a jackhammer with extended, mindless, unrelenting thrusting for hours and hours and hours (and hours), actually performing in that way every time you enjoy a sexual encounter should not be your goal. To understand sex as both passion, love, and art, dangerous strength, and sacred tenderness, listen to George Winston's December Album (one of the compositions can be heard in the following video).

This is not a rhetorical request, buy the album (preferably on vinyl); then listen to it from start to finish, in one session, in the dark, without speaking or allowing anyone else to speak. As you listen, you will learn about lovemaking and sex: notice the space between the notes—the silence. Notice that he, on occasion, demonstrates technique, finger speed, and dexterity sufficient to play as quickly as anyone. His fingers can and do sometimes move magically fast. But, when he plays, Winston shows no need to prove his abilities. Instead, he uses silence to make you want the next note.

He often only gives you the next note after making you wait a long second more than you expect; then, because you waited, when the note finally comes, you hear it, really hear it—you more than hear it. When he does give you “fast” and “loud,” slams your ear with a forceful stream of notes, he does so only after enticing you with “slow” and with “space” until you want “fast” and “loud.” Then, he makes you wait a little longer.

The space between the notes, the silence, makes the notes magic; and, maybe, more importantly, the space between the notes becomes as thrilling as the notes.

After you understand George Winston, you will see that artful thrilling connecting sex is like his compositions. Being able to thrust jackhammer style for hours does not mean that you should any more than George Winston should make his fingers move as forcefully and as quickly as possible throughout an entire album or concert just because he can.

Of course, to perform as an excellent pianist, Winston must have the ability to play quickly and with strength and volume—and we expect that and demand it or else we put away his music as weak and impotent; but much of the time, he plays very softly and leaves long space between the notes.
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Law of Health

If you want to find the laws of driving, you go to the courthouse or read a sign.

If you want to know the spiritual laws, you read the scriptures.

But, if you want to find the unchangeable Law of Health, if you want to know what rules of health have always been and will always be, where do you go?

Eleven years ago (after 20 years of studying those who suffer from disease and those who enjoy superior health) I wrote my best understanding of the unchanging Law of Health. Considering the current worries and needs of the current coronavirus pandemic, I thought the laws might be helpful to reconsider.

To examine the Law of Health, enter your info in the form below; you will receive the first lesson on the first law as an email. The lessons are completely free and of course, you can unsubscribe at any time and your email is never sold or shared.

Study the law (will come as an email most days for the next 10 weeks). If it makes sense to you, then do some of the actions suggested (to have a better life requires doing-not just knowing).

DO NOT GIVE UP THE ADVICE OF YOUR PHYSICIAN. Simply consider these specific laws of health with your physician and other health advisors.

Live the truth you know today (in an imperfect human way) and tomorrow you will find more truth. Look for the next email lesson within 24 hours. If you do not receive, please let me know at DrRunels@Runels.com

A Novel New Tool for Treating Infertility in Women

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This is a very important, extremely important article about the very difficult and heart-wrenching problem of how to help a woman become pregnant who is struggling with a particular form of infertility where the lining of the endometrial cavity is or the endometrium is too thin. If you think about it, and this was pointed out in the article, it's really miraculous that a woman can have bleeding and shedding of the endometrium every month throughout her reproductive years without scarring. Any other tissue in the body would have trouble with scarring. But unfortunately, there are some women who do scar, it's talked about in this study, is Asherman's syndrome where intrauterine adhesions happen, which the miracle is that all women don't have that as this bleeding and shedding takes place every month. Or then some people just seem to have somewhat genetic propensity to it. And then there is this lactobacillus-dominant endometrial microbiome that's supposed to be happening and sometimes that happens to not be the case. There's something other than lactobacillus dominating the endometrial microbiome.

And I know that there are those who poo-pooed the studies of putting yogurt in the vagina, but just as a sideline, it makes sense. There's only two places I know of in nature where lactobacilli live, the woman's vagina, the endometrial cavity and in yogurt. So unflavored yogurt, it really just does help change the flora and there are studies to support that. How many studies we need to make it a prescription accepted thing, I don't know. But I know this, if there was a medicine that had the same sort of biological and logical reasoning for working and I had a patent behind it, you'd see ads about it on television. But anyway, that's a sideline. The bottom line is that some people don't have lactobacillus-dominant endometrial microbiome and some women do have scarring and some people do have thinning.

So there were two studies that are referenced in this article about using PRP, which is known in dentistry and known in wound healing, plastic surgery, orthopedics for 20 years. This is not new science in those arenas, but as pointed out here, it's new to the arena of gynecologists. And you see gynecologist jumping up and down saying, "There's no research to support this." Well, this as in using PRP or platelet rich plasma to help women with urogynecological problems, it's because they've lived in a bubble where this research hasn't existed. If you read dental research or if you talk with dentists, orthopedists, they've quit debating about whether platelet rich plasma does anything. It's not the magic cure-all be-all, but their discussions are on a deeper level about what does it do and what can we do with it and what can we not do with it.

Hence, you're starting to see, as pointed out here, that there has been minimal investigations in date in gynecology about PRP, but minimal in relations to other domains or specialties like dentistry and orthopedics, but still a growing number. And hopefully in the next 10 years, it's usually 20 years for a new idea to take effect, we're 10 years in with the O-Shot®, so probably in the next 10 years it will become widely done. Just watch, it will happen.

So what's happened is there've been two people published studies showing that infusing the uterine cavity or in bathing the endometrium with PRP helps rejuvenate the tissue to make it healthier, to enhance the probabilities of becoming pregnant for a woman with the problems that happen with endometrial thinning. So hence, this study to say, "Okay, we have those clinical reports. Let's look on a cellular basis in vitro, in a culture, outside of the body with those cell types and see what happens with platelet rich plasma."

So they use saline as a control. They use platelet rich plasma and platelet poor plasma, and they found that platelet rich plasma does enhance the growth of the right kind of tissue and migration of the right kind of cells to the right place for the same things you see in dentistry to prevent scarring and to grow healthier, more vascular tissue, which in theory would explain why they saw the effect in the two studies that were done to show that it may actually help women with this as a cause of their infertility. The other thing is that we have in vitro studies showing that PRP, which is what your body normally makes ... It's not some esoteric thing. When you scraped your knee as a child, PRP is what caused the scab and the healing and the regeneration of the skin. PRP's what happens every time you have surgery or you have a wound. That's how it heals. The platelets bring growth factors, the [inaudible 00:05:11] cascade happens and you recruit stem cells to the area and you grow new tissue.

It's not a new idea. It's been around since people have been wounded. When people fought in the middle ages with swords, the PRP healed the wound. So it's not a new idea. The newness is, how can we take what's already happening in the body and harness that to help people with disease. The other thing is because we know that's part of the healing process, we have multiple studies showing that PRP has anti-microbial ... It acts as an antibiotic. And it could be that's another reason that's happening, because it may help take care of the bad microbes and therefore help the good microbes or lactobacilli flourish.

That's a reach for the explanation, but it's in line. It's not homeopathy or some weird idea from outer space. Homeopathy as not in nutrition as some people apply it, but homeopathy is one part in 10 million somehow make something happen, which doesn't happen. So this is not homeopathy. This is a logical thing that's backed up by every time you heal a wound and by 20 years of research in other arenas and now it's finally becoming more commonly done. We've done it with the O-Shot® now for the past 10 years to help rejuvenate the tissue around the urethra. It doesn't work in everybody, just like antibiotics don't' working in everybody. 5 to 10% of people in the hospital with pneumonia still die, even with antibiotics. 30% of the people in the intensive care unit with pneumonia still die even with antibiotics. But we don't say antibiotics don't work. They just don't work all the time because sometimes a person, their milieu or their body's not able to heal itself for whatever reason.

In the same way, maybe the problem isn't the vagina. Maybe the problem with infertility is hormonal issues or low sperm count with a man. This isn't the end-all, be-all, cure-all, but it's a very intelligently designed way to help a woman who has endometrial thinning or scarring of the endometrium as a cause for her infertility and it should definitely be studied. The problem is, as we found with the O-Shot® procedure, funding is difficult because there's no patent on blood, so yay for these investigators who had to do this out of their own pocket as we have had to done with the O-Shot®. I've spent over $300,000 just in a couple of years with research on the O-Shot®. More coming. We'll spend another 100,000 this year. It's funded by the physicians in our group, who by the way, should be giving money back and almost all of us do, if a patient isn't happy.

You can't be preying on people's pocketbook if you're not keeping their money, if they're not happy. I started taking cash in 2003. I've never kept a penny of a patient who wasn't happy. In that case, we've lost our money and we've lost our time and we're very sorry the person isn't well and we try to find something else to help them. Every procedure is with risk and without 100% guarantee. Every procedure has risk and every procedure is without 100% guarantee. So there's a consent form with our procedure. If you have the O-Shot® or if you have PRP infused into your endometrium, you should read the consent form. You should understand that you don't have to be treated at all. You certainly don't have to be treated with PRP. You should make sure that someone in our group has agreed to use FDA devices that are designed to prepare platelet rich plasma to go back into the body.

If things don't work well, you should discuss it with your physician and continue to demand that someone help you. Don't give up. Sexual function is so important. It's more than about pleasure. It's about relationships. It's about the psychology of feeling whole. It's about even spiritual enlightenment. Hence, the ideas of chastity when it comes to spiritual enlightenment in many cultures and religions. Sexuality has to do with creativity and personality. So it's not just about pleasure, it's about part of the foundation. Emerson said it was the scaffolding of love, hence the scaffolding of our families to build. Maybe you don't need a scaffolding after the empire is built, but it helps build the building of your relationship with your lover. So consider this talk with your physician about it. If your physician wants training, we have training. We have teachers around the world. We have over 2000 doctors in our group. We have people in over a dozen medical schools. We have ongoing research. Read it, think about it, talk with your doctor about it, and let's push our tools for healing women.

It breaks my heart when, when it comes to sexual dysfunction, we keep offering women vibrators and lubes or psychological. Everything's not in your head. If you have an endometrium that's thin, that's not in your head. That's in your endometrium. If you have scarring from having a big baby that tore the vagina, that's not in your head. Hence, the treatment is not psychological medicines that affect the brain. And there's better treatments than just a lube and a vibrator. We have so much better science than we did. I hope that you'll investigate. Read the science for yourself. Don't just blindly listen to the naysayers. Usually, 20 years for a new procedure to take effect in medicine. Read the science. Talk with your doctor and take care of your body and value your sexuality. I hope this helps you or someone you love.

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Total Surrender Orgasm With Female Ejaculation

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What's the Real Problem with Most Love Relationships, and How Do You Fix It?

What if when you made love to a woman, you left her completely limp, exhausted, covered in tears of happiness, wet with her own ejaculate, and basking in the afterglow of a pleasure so amazing that she collapsed in happy bliss and in obedience to your wisdom and skill in helping her to pleasure and safety?

Yep--That's a mouth full; but it's possible.

When you look at all the courses on lovemaking, all the supplements and courses to improve connection, and sex, and appearance and even the size of the penis, when you study all the info on the best way to dress (even why people read the scriptures)--for what do most people search in the way of sex and love?

After talking with over 3,000 women about the intimate details of their health and their lives, after writing the best-selling sex manual that brought to me male patients and letters from readers around the world, after way too many lovers (on a personal basis), after studying the latest in sexual research and even doing my own research in the areas of sex and physiology---this is what I consider the problem that persists that most cannot even articulate: no matter how controlling on angry she may seem, most women want to rest in the love of a man who is on an adventure, she wants to be the beauty that motivates and inspires, and (now here's the politically incorrect part that may make you gasp)--she wants to feel so secure and loved and trusting that she relaxes and becomes--OBEDIENT.

I know there will be many angry people, just because I wrote the "O" word. But, ironically, the angriest, the most denying, are the most unhappy because they have not found a safe place to rest in the "O" word (and I don't mean "orgasm").

She wants to be obedient, but you must be worthy and able to accept her. Most women are unconsciously testing men to see if the man is strong enough to rule her (in a loving way) and become disrespectful and angry when the men come up short.

Scary word. "obedience", and most women would rather you ask them for anything other than obedience. But, in the right situation, they will gladly give it to the man: the right situation is--"Total Surrender Orgasm with Female Ejaculation."

Just for me to write the "O" word took much courage on my part because I know how much it's misunderstood and can even provoke more anger than most four-letter words.

But, wait, please let me explain the real secret of the "O" word...

What if she knew the man loved her enough to die for her with a completely unselfish love? What if she knew that he loved her so much he would never want anything for her except the very best, even if it brought him pain.

What if she trusted his judgment (because of his love); thought him strong and wise and connected to a higher power; what if she thought his soul connected to hers so that she knew that when she cut her finger that he would bleed--that when she had an orgasm, that he would feel ecstasy?

What if he really knew her body better than anyone--including herself?

Do you think that then, perhaps, she would know that whatever he asked would at least be the best for her, then, knowing that, could actually become eager to know what he wanted of her, and start living the "O" word even if her ladies magazines have taught her to deplore it?

If she knew that she would blossom with beauty and with happiness and with pleasure if obedient to him, would she want to be obedient?

It's pretty straight from most scriptures: The man loves the woman enough to die for her. The woman obeys the man with devoted surrender.

He gets respect. She gets love.

Sounds pretty cool, but how to pull that off?

More importantly, how do you relate to a woman emotionally and physically to find this very sweet surrender (and I mean sweet for her even more than for him).

Just being a "good lover" will not do it; she could have many "good" lovers who are mechanically adequate in bed, but she's looking for "something more."

Just listening will not do it; her friends listen.

Just being strong or rich or having large biceps or a large penis or a handsome face--none of these will do it.

She may think that when she meets the man with any combination of the above that she has found the man to whom she can surrender--but after a time, she realizes that none of these are enough and she will start to pull away, grow dissatisfied, and look elsewhere or settle into a tasteless routine.

An Experiment to Prove the True Nature of Men and Women

Show me a woman who is totally surrendered to a man who does not love her completely and I will show you a woman being abused by a man (physically, emotionally, or both).

Show me a woman who is not surrendered (and obedient) to a man who completely and unselfishly loves her, and I will show you a man who is broken physically and financially by the emotional (and yes sometimes physical) abuse of the woman he loves.

Here's the Experiment...

Stop now: Prove the truth of these words by thinking of couples who fit both categories.

The surrender of the woman without the unselfish love of the man leads to the abuse of the woman.
Unselfish love of the man without surrender of the woman leads to abuse of the man.

Could you think of examples of both cases? Women find it easier to think of cases of the first situation. Men find it easier to think of cases of the second example.

It takes both to have the perfect match. A wise, strong, loving man. A wise, strong, and surrendered woman.

Show me a woman who is totally surrendered to a completely loving man and I will show you a loving, excited, happy couple.

For this to work, the man's love must be greater than the woman's to earn the surrender of the woman. That is the way of the ancients and it's what's missing from the modern that results in the turbulence and the breakups of most marriages.

When the man puts on the suit, or lifts weights, or studies martial arts, or reads a book--he wants the surrender of a woman--but none of these will work.

When the woman puts on the dress, or gets the manicure, she wants the love of the man--but none of these will work.

Why the Problem Continues...

So, if this is the highest way between man and woman, and it's been spoken for at least 2,000 years, then why does the problem continue?

Here are several reasons:

Sometimes the man is fearful of the woman, when what the woman really wants is for the man to be man enough to stand up to her--to not be afraid. If he can't stand up to her, how can he be strong enough to stand up for her?
Sometimes the man loves the woman dearly but simply does not know how to communicate to the woman that he loves her enough for her to find rest with him (If he thinks his words or his money will do it, then he's in for some pain).
Sometimes the woman is so fearful of giving up control to a man (who might then abuse or neglect her) that she cannot find the courage to surrender (and he does not know how to help her find that courage).
Sometimes the man truly does not love the woman enough, nor is he strong enough, or wise enough to give her a place to rest--so she cannot surrender--it would be like stepping off a cliff to fall into an abyss.
Sometimes everything is in place (the man is able and loving, the woman is able and wanting) except for the man understanding a way to make it happen. Here the man struggles to find a better way to talk, or buys more things, or tries to have more sex, or less sex, spending more time, spending less time--until he's exhausted and she's confused. Until, with a deep feeling that everything could be perfect but with exhaustion from not being able to set it up, finally the couple splits to try to find bliss another way.
Or, without knowing what or how to find the total surrender to the perfect love, both parties settle into a place of mostly peaceful cohabitation. Never going deeper and never splitting apart. Never knowing the full bliss of a male and female union but living together to avoid the pain completely being alone.
Plainly this level of devotion and understanding is not easy, which is exactly why it cannot be found in the quick and meaningless encounters. This situation is the reward of those truly devoted to each other and is one way to define the heavenly bliss that should define a committed love. So, this situation only comes about with at least the idea of being together in some way forever (which ironically most people fear because they do not know what is possible).

How sad that some people think the only reason for a long-term relationship is either the rearing of children or the avoidance of sexually transmitted disease or to keep from being lonely. You can accomplish all of these ends fairly well and be reasonably promiscuous with only short-term relations.

But, to accomplish what I am describing demands that you go to the core of your being as a man

and find the core of her being as a woman.

And, the reward is the definition of love and of sexual bliss.

The Problem Continues Because Most Men are Learning Bed-Room Tricks and Lifting Weights and Buying Gifts Instead of Finding the Holy Pilgrimage to a Woman's Soul

The path to this blissful place cannot be explained in a 3-page article in Cosmo Magazine or in Men's Health Magazine. You won't find it exactly laid out in the scriptures or in the sex manuals or in the gym (though there are ingredients and clues in all of those places).

To really successfully follow this path requires a working knowledge of at least the following:

The psychology of a woman's surrender both emotionally and sexually (almost the same).
The different types of female orgasm and how to help a woman to each type.
The physiology and endocrinology of excellent female health and sexuality.
The detailed anatomy of the female body, especially how it relates to the different types of orgasm.
The sexual techniques of a man that allow him to have unlimited sex (not worrying about premature ejaculation).
The special techniques that best provide a deep, earth-shattering, ejaculating orgasm for the woman (one of these I developed and have seen in no other book).
The spiritual laws of sexuality that allow unbridled passion without boredom.
The how to find the courage to love her fearlessly (and why it's your own emotions that you should most fear). Why you won't take her to bliss and obedience without this because she will know your fear and hold back.
How to find the connection to a higher power from which she can draw strength through her connection to you. Are you really brave enough to become the "priest" of your house that sanctifies her sexuality and then fills it with exploding passion that show's her heaven on earth?
How to be loving without becoming wimpy. If you cater to her every need in a wimpy way, then she has castrated you and will look at you with disdain because you allowed that castration. If you love her unselfishly but with strength, then you have discovered the art of a manly love and she will surrender to you. Men who make idols of their lover will eventually know their lover's disdain.
According to ancient scriptures, the man who loves his woman in the wrong way will literally have his prayers "hindered" --eventually being cut off from both wife and God.

In summary, the reason the problem continues is that these are not easy skills and they are nether widely known nor widely taught. It took me until the age of 40, a few thousand patients, too many lovers, a study of scripture and physiology, sex manuals, anatomy, psychiatry, endocrinology, and a broken marriage to even start to become aware of the existence of these skills and laws.

The understanding of these laws and techniques is as deep and as profound and not far removed from the understanding of the Creator and discovering how to love the woman in your life can be a way to discover the face of that Creator.

A Powerful Tool for Finding Complete Surrender--What Is Possible with the Level 9 Orgasm

About a year ago, I discussed the idea of female ejaculation and offered a seminar to teach some very esoteric techniques.

I have closed that seminar for now; but I am offering a course that presents many of the techniques in audio and written materials. This is not a course to read and think about. This is an action group with home work assignments.

The goal of the group is that your lover will reach a place of more loving surrender and of female ejaculation. Before you get too excited, be sure to read this.

What This Action Group Cannot Fix:

If your woman has the personality to roam--borderline personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, and others--then she will roam no matter what. No man will ever satisfy her because she is unable to find satisfaction. But, she will still be obedient to you when she is with you.
If you do not do as instructed, then you will not see results. This is an action group, not a study course. You learn to do or else learning does not change your life.
If your relationship is damaged, it may take being away from your lover for a time or starting over with another person. Sometimes, you can't un break a glass. But, if you start over, you will increase your chances of a real connection.

The Tools to Teach You the Skills

Week 1: Total Surrender Orgasm with Female Ejaculation Part I (One hour MP3 audio recording).

Week 2: Anytime...for as Long as You Want: Strength, Genius, Libido, & Erection by Integrative Sex Transmutation 15-day course for men to improve sex and life.

Week 3: Total Surrender Orgasm Part II (One hour MP3 audio recording) Explains

Week 4: The Law of Health: 10 Essential Steps to Glorious Health & Miraculous Healing. A 10-Week course to find your best health and your best shot at rejuvenation and healing of your body-temple.

Week 5: Dr. Runels Recipe for Erection Enhancement. How to make your penis larger and healthier. What women really think about penis size. When size matters and when it does not.

Week 6: The #1 Health & Energy Secret Without this one you will have less energy to give.

Week 7: Total Surrender Orgasm with Female Ejaculation Part III (One hour MPE audio recording). Explains

Week 8: The Magic 9 techniques for extending lovemaking for as long as you want making ejaculation like a light switch that you turn on or off at will.

Week 9: Practical Application of Integrative Sex Transmutation: Advanced techniques for transmuting sexual energy into strength, energy, intelligence, creativity, spiritual enlightenment, and into the sexual and physical connection that makes two lovers become one.

For about the price of dinner and a movie, you can learn how to elevate your sex and love-making to a place of which few know exists and even less ever see.

I've been asked by some of my group to extend this price but after one more week, the price goes WAY up (haven't decided how much yet). Most offer discounts to get new clients. I'm offering a discount because you've been reading my stuff already.

Hope to hear from you. I'll be advertising the group and going up on the price in a few days.

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Peace & Health,

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Charles Runels, MD

The Sex Energy Doctor™